Hi. :) I know this is terrible of me, but I sometimes lose attraction for my boyfriend of 3 years brcause he is ”too” perfect. Ok, he and I have a wonderful connection, and literally a light shines in my soul when i'm with him. He loves me to the point of adoring me, placing me on a pedestal it seems. He'd literally do anything for me, spend money until he is broke then almost hurting himself working to get more to spend. I don't even bother worrying if he's faithful, i'm 1000% he is. It's like he's submissive to me almost. I should like this, right? Well, sometimes I don't.
Sometimes I find myself wanting to argue, wanting him to say ”no” for once. Wanting him to fantasize about other girls, sometimes even wanting him to cheat! I want him to be selfish, I want him to dominate me for his own pleasure. Be forceful with me, be careless. He and I are both of a submissive nature.
He will NEVER see me in a negative way, no matter what I do. I can't stand it sometimes. Please help?
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You are complaining because you're treated like a queen as a woman should be treated.
Be careful what you wish for.
This happened to me too! I nicely broke up with him and told him that things weren't gonna work out because my parents didnt want me to have a boyfriend and i would get in huge problem.
You need to find your perfect match, someone who you like, with DEFECTS and IMPERFECTIONS and everything, if you don't like him, dump him, as simple as that!
Always, always think about yourself honey, because no one is as important as YOU are!