Should I tell fiancé I want to talk to his ex girlfriends?
Before spending my life with him I want to make sure he is who he says. Supposedly all his break ups were due to the girlfriends fault, she cheated on him, or she did something and he decided to leave. I've caught him lying about where he was once and ever since I have huge trust issues with him, he gets upset I can't leave the past behind and makes excuses for the lie. Is it a good idea if I want to talk to his ex's to get their side of the relationship or will that drive him away from me?
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If he proposed to you, means he loves you. Why would you wanna mess things up? It just shows you, you don't trust him.
Do not marry until you have the trust issues settled to your satisfaction. Where is his family and friends? They know him. Make sure you know him well before you marry. I suggest a long engagement. And if he is lying to you that is unlikely to change. He is who he is, just make sure it is what you want. Talking to his exes will not help because they could easily lie to you. You have no way of knowing if they are being honest.
Well he prolly not gonna be ok with you talking to his x girlfriends esp if he doesnt know that you dont trust him. The thing is if you dont trust him then dont marry him. Atleast not right now, until you can trust him again.
If he doesnt have a problem with you talking to his x gfs then I'd say go for it .
Bad idea. They'll probably just mess with you. Leave the past behind.
That's a seriously bad idea,if your already fiance's then you should already know and trust him and love him for who you know him to be. It'll definitely drive him away.