[“Psychics please answer this question”] is my boyfriend worth my time?
i feel hes not putting any effort in this relationship. He is attending the academy right now and we hardly talk or see each other. Is he only into me and not anyone else?
well if you guys barely talk and barely see each-other then that's your answer...why dont you talk to him...tell him that you guys are not how you used to be and that you either need to sort it out or you'll walk. It's so easy for us girls to stay in these draining relationships...because of the emotinal attachment and denial that it didn't work out, that we end up hurting ourselves way more than we deserve and should. Honestly think well and hard... are you happy?Does this relationship and you bf allow you to be yourself?....it may seem cheesy but there are many other guys out there...you may not find another one straight away or whatever but he will come. Would you rather spend some time single and concentrate on finding yourself and what you trully want...or run after a bf who doesnt even bother anymore..... one sided relationships are the ones that have passed their use-by date!
So if you think talkin to him will improve things...do it...otherwise don;t let him mess with you...walk out and find true happiness :)! Wish you all the best!
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THATS A QUESTION YOU SHOULD BE ASKING YOURSELF?? NOT A STRANGER.
well if you guys barely talk and barely see each-other then that's your answer...why dont you talk to him...tell him that you guys are not how you used to be and that you either need to sort it out or you'll walk. It's so easy for us girls to stay in these draining relationships...because of the emotinal attachment and denial that it didn't work out, that we end up hurting ourselves way more than we deserve and should. Honestly think well and hard... are you happy?Does this relationship and you bf allow you to be yourself?....it may seem cheesy but there are many other guys out there...you may not find another one straight away or whatever but he will come. Would you rather spend some time single and concentrate on finding yourself and what you trully want...or run after a bf who doesnt even bother anymore..... one sided relationships are the ones that have passed their use-by date!
So if you think talkin to him will improve things...do it...otherwise don;t let him mess with you...walk out and find true happiness :)! Wish you all the best!