Need help! I don´t want to let him go... Need some good advise?
I know. Why me. I have been waiting for an answer from this guy if what we did was have sex or move on. I like this guy. Honestly. But it´s been 4 days that we haven´t talked. On Friday he came to my house, ate, movies and of course, sex. I am so shy to be honest and if I let him go it´s another book in a page. I don´t want that. I called him yesturday and no answer. Friends say move on, you were going way to fast but I didn´t do that. It was both of us. So please, instead of move on, tell me some good advise cause I really need it.
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Keep trying to stay in contact with him, but don't allow him to take advantage of your relationship, you say your shy and your friends say you moved a little fast, try to slow things down and don't allow yourself to have sex with him straight away if he talks to you again. Rebuild your trusts and take the normal steps to create the foundations to a strong relationship, learn from your earlier mistakes. Hope I helped, good luck!
You were going too fast, but it was both of you, for sure. Guys like sex. It happens. Let go. If he's interested, he'll come around, but, if you want more than sex, make sure he does, too, before you do it again. Otherwise, you'll just get hurt. Try to not to trade sex for affection and respect if that's what you really want. It only makes you feel bad. If you want sex, though, sex is fine.
Tell him that u like him alot and that u want to be more than sex buddies or whatever. Let him know how u feel. If it's right, he'll be on the same page as you
Just tell him that you need to talk urgently that should hopefully get his attention
express your love if you don't want to lose him