hmm..its like this in short…My girlfriend knows i am unhappily married…and doesn't mind it…but recently I found her getting physical with another guy…basically not kissing or having sex, but she was enjoying him pulling her close to him (it was clear from her body language). So…i messaged her and said that i knew what was going on. She offered to explain twice…but i was in no mood to talk. After that i was too angry so I ignored her. She has been trying since to get my attention, by dropping small hints like smiling when we meet..which i return just as courteously …but she never goes beyond anything that can be construed more than social courtesy. And she hasn't apologized, or come over to speak to me on her own. Instead, she has nowadays begun ignoring me in return…Should I continue ignoring her back,or should I break the ice?

The reason I haven't listened to her explanation is that i know she will bullshit me into believing that they were 'just friends' or 'he was being forceful'…when I am pretty sure from her body language that she was very much enjoying the attention. Plus, I saw them together in the cafeteria the next day too! Moreover, I also know that once I listen to her, she will try to turn the tables by blaming me for not 'believing ' her and being unduly suspicious..