I’ve been friends with this person for about a year now and we always talk in school and play Xbox together, but he never wants to hang out... and he always makes excuses why we can’t like it’s to nice out... it’s to bad out... I have to paint my house, sometimes he says I could come over on Sunday but on Sunday I text him what time can I come over and he says I don’t want to over now, come tomorrow, ( he wasn’t busy he was on Xbox all day and he has a friend over on fri and sat ) but Monday he said no too... and he has been saying no for twelve weeks. He always gets annoyed at me for trying to make plans and he says ask me a day before instead but he makes plans with other people. And I’m always so nice to him, I never have done anything mean to him, I’ve been really nice. I always buy him gifts too. And I don’t know what to do because he always tells me he likes me... but I’m getting sick of him doing this to me every week... please help me...
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DON'T MAKE PLANS ANYMORE!
Quit chasing him.
Easy.
Your "friend" doesn't want to hang out with YOU.
Time to get the clue.
Don't force anyone to like you. Find people who want to be around you. It's not fair to you or him to try to make him want to hang out with you or try to force a relationship that isn't there.
take the hint and stop pestering him. also quit buying him gifts it makes you look desperate and needy and like you are trying to buy his friendship which you kind of are. He hangs out with other people because he enjoys their company not because they buy him gifts
Can't you take a hint? It's very clear that it's not as important to him for you guys to hang out as it is to you. That is something you need to accept. It will do you no good to dwell on this or feel bad about it and rack your brain trying to figure out what you can do to change his mind. Sometimes people drift apart. A friendship can't be one sided and it can't be forced. It sounds like it's time for you to move on. Stop calling him. If he wants to see you, he will call you. The ball is in his court. Find other people to hang out with.