We are both 32 and my fiancée told me that she slept with 2 guys before me. first one was her boyfriend. She liked him but not really loved that guy much. She said they had a 2 year long on and off relationship and after she broke up with him.She lost her virginity to him when she was 24. And then he cheated on her she broke up. Then she fell in love with older guy at work who was her manager. She said it was a love at first sight and added that she never loved someone like she loved him. That was when she was 28. Apparently, the guy lied to him and he was in a relationship with another woman so they broke up obviously.
Then she met me almost 3 years after that. She says she never loved anyone like me. The fact that she slept with these guys really bothers me to the point where I wanna break up with her. I know it's stupid but I can't help it. I'm not a virgin either but I'm a guy.. She is not a virgin and I can't stop thinking her having sex with those two guys. I love her but I wish she was clean. She loves to have sex and this makes me wonder if she is lying about the number of guys she has slept with. According to her, I'm her 3rd sexual partner but from early 08 till we had sex around early 11, she claims she didnt have sex with anyone. 3 years without sex when you love to have sex...On the other hand, she doesn't seem very experienced when it comes to sex. She seems like a woman who has sex when she really has feelings for someone. But is she lying?? Am I really the 3rd one? What should I do?
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if shes been with you 3yrs who cares? she obviously loves something about you.
There is no necessity for her to tell the truth to you.. She had said the truth to you because she trusts you. Sex is not everything in the life and think about you even you are not virgin.. There is no rules is this world, we made it all. Show true love to her, if you really love her, you will not ask these questions her. If you find, she is not true to you later then leave her... But dont doubt her... There will be no love if you have doubt. ... Put all your worries out of your mind, your gals heart is pure she had said truth to you. if you are not convinced, and you move out of her then you will be the third guy in her life where she never did any faults and fourth guy enter into her life to leave her. so now say is the fault with these gal or the guys who betrayed her? Never ever leave a gal for these ******* things...
Past partners are a part of the past your either in her future or not your choice. But last time i checked loving sex was not a crime people actually like that side of some people. maybe if your having that much of a problem with it then it might be your problem not hers. Sorry just trying to help.
A guy once told me, if he loved someone it didn't matter if she was a prostitute, he would still want her. This was a guy who was highly educated too and had his whole future ahead of him. How different you are. Just leave her.
i think she's honest to u...she might've also lied u bt she didn't....u r also nt virgin...so she is same as u r.....i think she is honest and good match for you...just think-she lied u and u come to know this from someone else!!!!! I think u r lucky to have an honest girl..... Think wide
Yes, I do remember that it was an awesome night.
If you love her, believe what she says.