I am 24, She is 23. We have been dating for 2 and ½ years. We had a really rocky relationship, cheating on both ends, and not much trust all around… But we love each other to death, and make each other extremely happy. I have never felt this way about someone in my life. About two months ago, we decided to break up, and it was ugly. We didn’t speak for a month. We decided to talk about a month later to try and get some closure and understanding of the issues, but we both hate talking about feelings and ended up avoiding the conversation all together. We just enjoyed seeing each other again and didn’t want to ruin the situation by bringing up bad feelings. We ended up going out together with some friends that night, and sleeping together. We hung out on Sunday as well. And slept together again on Tuesday. When Friday came around, we saw each other at a bar, and she ignored me. When I asked her what was wrong, she said that it was a mistake because I never said I was sorry that whole week for hurting her…. She said she needs to be with someone who really cares and treats her right. It has been almost a month since that incident with no talking, (keep in mind we were both drunk at that incident). She texted me on Sunday and said she wanted to talk if I did. So I called her back, she said she misses me and wants to talk, I agreed, I have been wanting to talk for a while since there has been no real conversation about the break up after two months. I drove two hours immediately to see her. I told her I was sorry, and we talked about some issues. She said that she really wants to do everything she can to make it work, and that she still loves me. At this point, I have realized that it was never really meant to last, so I figure I will try to move on, instead of hurting us both down the road. But in the moment, I told her that I love her and so on… She had told me earlier that she had something to tell me. So I wanted to hear what it was before I said anything stupid. She then started crying and told me that she is a week late for her period, and that she is never late. She hopes it is stress… but doesn’t know. When she told me, I had mixed feelings. I was a little scared, but mostly good feelings. I honestly felt happy for some reason. So I did what I must, and told her that I will be there every step of the way, And I mean it with all my heart. I may screw up with my girlfriend, but when It comes to having a Child, I want to be the best dad in the world… Even if it wasn’t planned and happened after we broke up…

I guess I just want to hear what you guys think about this situation, and how do I handle it. I want to do everything right.

PS. I want to have the kid, if in fact she is pregnant, What do I do if she doesn’t? WHAT DO I DO????