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Honey , society puts to many labels on everything . Bi straight lesbian it's all words like a dictionary has them. You are inside your body and mind. Look enjoy life. You state you are bi right. Date men , date woman. Just cause you like woman you aren't a alien lol. Have sweaty hot sex with girls. You don't have to come out until you figure out what you are . This is not done in one day. It's a journey.

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If they treat you like that because of who you are you need better friends!

Your real friends will be your real friends. People come from different backgrounds with their parents and religion teaching them that being gay is a sin. Depending upon how mature the person is, how open minded the person is , that is how they will treat you.

To make yourself feel stronger inside call the gay enter, talk to the counselor and join a group of kids your age for support and socializing. Once you can accept your feelings, and truly believe you are A OK, then you can tell others.

For help telling your folks, contact PFLAG.org- a wonderful support group of parents who help other parents with LGBT kids. They are really wonderful.

There will be some people will not want to hang out with you any more. So screw them.

There will be people who will treat you differently, so screw them.

And when you come out to your folks, make sure you have info from PFLAG to give them. Do not cry because they will then think it's a phase. Show them you're happy and have support from your friends.

I have written to so many kids who have to come out. Make a plan just in case they get too upset for you to stay at home. Make sure you have a friend to call. Just be a proud you. Take care of yourself. Be happy.

HUGS from a senior lesbian

If you're not ready, then you don't have to come out. And if you do, then your friends aren't really your friends if they slut shame you

If you're really worried, then don't come out until college.