Sure, you might carry your fat on your thighs. MOST women carry their fat on their thighs and hips, and it is genetically determined to allow women to maintain a pregnancy and breastfeed their infants EVEN if there is a famine going on. That fat is there to supply the necessarily energy for this.
Doesn't help you any, since you are not trying to have a baby and probably don't live in a famine-prone area of this planet.
But this IS how REAL women ARE.
If you have a problem with your figure, what needs fixing is your "head" (what you tell yourself, your self-image, your self-esteem .. created BY what you tell yourself).
There is nothing wrong with your figure and I can assure you that there WILL be men who find YOUR figure irresistible.
For every figure variation, there are men who LIKE that type of figure. I have even know men who ONLY liked women who were obese (weighed over 250 pounds) ...
Do not starve yourself. You will become very sick and might even die.
Your weight is fine, and the distribution of your body fat IS as the distribution IS. You cannot fix that. You can only accept it.
Understand that women who try to like themselves, basing it on their body, end up miserable AND the older they get, the MORE miserable they become.
But women who try to find an internal sense of self-approval (and this is gained by doing what you KNOW is kind and right) ... end up becoming happier and happier as they age.
Your current thinking patterns are steering you right into being miserable for your lifetime.
Change that.
You DO deserve to be happy. But our emotions rise from what we tell ourselves, and what we have told ourselves over time. So start monitoring your self-statements and be kinder to yourself . .be a parent and don't allow nonsense messages to continue.
holy cow girl, You're obviously having some mental health issues here. you're eating disorder and attention seeking with this question. Go get some help. If your parents don't care, talk to a trusted school counselor or the school nurse.
You are slightly below the minimum recommended weight for an adult female of 5'3". You indicate you have an unhealthy body image and unhealthy eating habits.
Recommended weight range for a woman your height is 113 lbs to 131 lbs, depending on body frame size (per the source site).
Big thighs may just be hereditary. If they are muscular, that's good. More muscle gives you a faster metabolism, which means your body uses more calories for energy even at rest. However, starving yourself can lead to your body using muscle tissue for energy, which will lower your weight but leave you squishy looking and slow your metabolism.
Stop starving yourself. All that will do is create nutritional deficiencies which can lead to heath problems. The idea should be to look and feel healthy, not to look malnourished and feel tired and unhealthy.
No. Your weight is on the low side of normal, bordering on underweight. It sounds like you have have an eating disorder. Show this to your parents and see if they can get you to see a doctor to be evaluated.
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I calculated your BMI (body-mass index) for you, based on the information you provided. I had to select if you were Asian, and I chose "not".
Look at the graph. Your weight/fat level is at normal healthy levels (green).
https://www.smartbmicalculator.com/result.html?uni...
No you are NOT fat.
Sure, you might carry your fat on your thighs. MOST women carry their fat on their thighs and hips, and it is genetically determined to allow women to maintain a pregnancy and breastfeed their infants EVEN if there is a famine going on. That fat is there to supply the necessarily energy for this.
Doesn't help you any, since you are not trying to have a baby and probably don't live in a famine-prone area of this planet.
But this IS how REAL women ARE.
If you have a problem with your figure, what needs fixing is your "head" (what you tell yourself, your self-image, your self-esteem .. created BY what you tell yourself).
There is nothing wrong with your figure and I can assure you that there WILL be men who find YOUR figure irresistible.
For every figure variation, there are men who LIKE that type of figure. I have even know men who ONLY liked women who were obese (weighed over 250 pounds) ...
Do not starve yourself. You will become very sick and might even die.
Your weight is fine, and the distribution of your body fat IS as the distribution IS. You cannot fix that. You can only accept it.
Understand that women who try to like themselves, basing it on their body, end up miserable AND the older they get, the MORE miserable they become.
But women who try to find an internal sense of self-approval (and this is gained by doing what you KNOW is kind and right) ... end up becoming happier and happier as they age.
Your current thinking patterns are steering you right into being miserable for your lifetime.
Change that.
You DO deserve to be happy. But our emotions rise from what we tell ourselves, and what we have told ourselves over time. So start monitoring your self-statements and be kinder to yourself . .be a parent and don't allow nonsense messages to continue.
holy cow girl, You're obviously having some mental health issues here. you're eating disorder and attention seeking with this question. Go get some help. If your parents don't care, talk to a trusted school counselor or the school nurse.
You are slightly below the minimum recommended weight for an adult female of 5'3". You indicate you have an unhealthy body image and unhealthy eating habits.
Recommended weight range for a woman your height is 113 lbs to 131 lbs, depending on body frame size (per the source site).
Big thighs may just be hereditary. If they are muscular, that's good. More muscle gives you a faster metabolism, which means your body uses more calories for energy even at rest. However, starving yourself can lead to your body using muscle tissue for energy, which will lower your weight but leave you squishy looking and slow your metabolism.
Stop starving yourself. All that will do is create nutritional deficiencies which can lead to heath problems. The idea should be to look and feel healthy, not to look malnourished and feel tired and unhealthy.
No. Your weight is on the low side of normal, bordering on underweight. It sounds like you have have an eating disorder. Show this to your parents and see if they can get you to see a doctor to be evaluated.