cut the stupid long story short I met this guy in August- started off all good all flirty and getting close! He even started saying stuff like 'miss you' and calling me his baby then we meet each other and he's so quiet! And keeps staring at me- we hug, hold hands, kiss then he touches me. He kept moaning my name and calling me baby.
Then he gives me a hug before I go- he doesn't like lipstick so wouldn't kiss me, he said he would have(he told me not to wear it before we met). I text him- he texts back with 3 kisses. I tell him I miss him but he didn't say it back instead he asks me if I'm ok. Convo goes ok and he's busy at work- I get upset thinking wtf so I swear at him. He gets angry blocks me doesn't talk again :S says he doesn't wanna lead me on. Doesn't like my attitud
We talk again after 4 weeks- this time we agree on being friends and having fun. He texts back straight away. I start getting flirty and send him pictures of my new dress I bought and he asked me who are they for? I said you- he questions me about it.
He tells me we'll see each other one day when hes free. I told him I'm busy and I'm off out. He starts ignoring me and acting funny again. So I get angry and told him I didn't like him in that way. He blocks me!
Even my mate had a word with him he told her I don't wanna talk to someone who says that yet they message me etc. Send me stuff. Then he tells her he doesn't like me and I'm errrrr. Said he doesn't care. Said I'm nothing for him and im sad
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You cannot force someone into liking u. Most of the guys r straight forward, if they get angry or irritated by u, at some point they will try to make you wanna get out of their life. And if this situation happens often, u might wanna ignore him too. See, relationship is a part of ur life, its not ur life. If u think it doesnt work out well, if u hav a feeling of that sort, thn u sud stay away as well. Relationship cannot b single sided. If u think he is not putting enough effot in making this relationship work, thn i think u sud stop trying. U will eventually get hurt n miss him a lot, but remember u deserve to b happy n one day find someone who loves u eqaully or more than u do. Dont lose hope.
You shouldn't have told him you were busy. Guys know that as code for brushing him off. Now he thinks you don't like him.
u are a mother and u look for a son
so u educate that man and u preach and teach the whole day and u make him angry
is your aim make him run away or cry?