I can’t decide if I should break up with my boyfriend?
We’ve been together for over a year but we are in high school and I kinda wanna date other guys and see what it’s like, but I also love my boyfriend and don’t want to hurt him. (He had told me that if we hadn’t met he had already planned to kill himself. And on multiple occasions he had said if we broke up he’d finally do it) so I’m scared to leave him, and scared to miss out on the future we could have. But I’m also scared to miss out on being a teenager and dating other people. What should I do?
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Him killing himself has nothing to do with you and you should leave him for emotional blackmail though you should tell a teacher, his parents or the police about his suicidal thoughts. These are the best years of your life so don't waste them this is the only time in your life where you can regularly party and enjoy sex with people and get away with it. Enjoy it while it lasts because it will be over before you know it.
You need to tell his parent(s) that he's threatening suicide so they can handle it. People who threaten this rarely do it (because it's just a manipulation tactic) and it isn't your responsibility to manage his mental and emotional problems.