I went to this girl in my classes house last week to study and we ended up making out and grinding on one another. She told me she had a lot of fun and that I’m an attractive, and fun guy but she isn’t looking for a relationship now though due to work and school.(this was over text yesterday) I told her I wasn’t looking for a relationship either and suggested we could just have fun along the way and she replied “like..friends with benefits? And I said “in a nutshell.. yeah”. This was almost 24 hours ago and I haven’t heard back from her. The fact we did this last week and she says I’m attractive and the way she asked if that’s what I meant I didn’t think it would constitute being ignored. Granite she isn’t a big texter and works a lot but still this is the longest she’s gone without replying? What does this mean? What can I do?
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You can ask her again honestly, if she doesn't want to make it happens, respect her choice.
Sit tight - the ball is in her court, don't push it, let it play out without pressuring her. She may or may not have liked the idea or is just mulling it over. If you only want FWB then why are you fretting over the lack of a text?? THINK ABOUT IT!
I think you have your answer. she's not that kind of girl. she told you she didn't have time for a relationship, and that means that's the only way she's going to be with a guy sexually. most women aren't built (psychologically) to just have sex and walk away. once she has sex, a woman will have expectation and want more from the guy. that's why FWB rarely works. nobody likes getting used just for their body. hell even hookers get paid!