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Then you might not want to get married. Sorry to be so blunt, but I am totally cereal.

When I am with the man I want to be with, I want to be next to him. I don't have to be up in his stuff, but I like seeing him there when I wake up in the middle of the night. And another bed just would be silly.

You need to discuss this with her, though. Not us, Just saying...

I agree with Maria to just be honest about needing good sleep. There are going to be a lot tougher issues to tackle in the future might as well get those communication skills into practice. Here are a couple other options we've tried. Have designated "together/cuddle" time before you go to sleep or in the morning or during a nap or TV. Physical touch such as a back rub might be enough for the bonding, negotiate and find out what works. TV is supposedly not healthy for sleep so try music as a comprimise. Sleep on the same surface with seperate bedding. IKEA did this in an ad and gave us the idea, comfortable option. We've also done where I have complete bedding and there is a small fan aimed only at the other side of the bed. It is not uncommon for couples to have different sound, climate requirements and in the days of my grandparents seperate sleeping was considered a good thing so each person could get needed sleep. Sometimes I need more physical attention and sometimes not. I appreciate being able to share this with my partner.

1. If U r serious in Ur views, then there must be something wrong wth U.

2. Remember, almost all the Relationships conclude in beicoming physical whch is part & parcel of Love & Passion.

3. No, there is hardly any space for Platonic Love, U know !!

4. Then , U may hv to live a Celibate Life or become a Saint or Sage !!!!!

I would tell her this just the same way that you're telling us.

For all you know, she might actually be ok with this. And for whatever it's worth, this seems to be a trend amongst a lot of people nowadays. They have sex then off to their own beds.

I have actually ended up on the couch a few times when my bf's snoring was too heavy. So I can understand you're wanting to be comfortable.

That's kind of hard esp with the TV thing too bc you might have to sleep in separate rooms altogether. Why not just buy a bigger bed?

Get two twins or two kings maybe... Oh and put them together so you have optimal space for yourself and don't seem too much like the in the closet douche of a soon to be a-whole husband... Good luck

becareful she might think you are cheating on her but the truth is the truth

i know how u feel i like sleeping with the tv on i like heat he likes ac in winter lol push another bed by her. good luck.