Since my daughter was born I’ve had troubles seeing my child. In the beginning it was the mother to blame. Then she left the excuses up to her parents. Yes her parents who cared not to meet any boyfriend period because of the fact that she had so many in her past. Now, there contesting my effort for full custody due to the fact that the mother is on drugs. There was even talk of the older sister trying to adopt my child behind my back. The only reason that was stopped was they had to have my consent. Ya know I didn’t let that $hi% ride. I have no convictions and I believe im a fairly good guy. I find these people to be very selfish and blind to what the child’s primary needs are. With the grandparents acting like this and no effort or attempt to recognize or try and change. How should I treat these people?
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Honestly, if you are fighting for custody of your child in court, the nicer you are to them, the better it will look on you on the court date. Think of what is best for your child in everything you do.
The grandparents are probably afraid that you will take custody of their grandchild and they will never see her again. Right now they are acting out of fear. Please make provisions for her to see them. It would be much healthier for her to get to know them. Perhaps one day you can actually have a friendly relationship with her other family.
You should treat them with respect and how you would like to be treated. Any actions you take now more then ever are being watched and probably recorded. You did not tell your side of the story. It was all about them. What part did you play in this? If you are the father and the mother is on drugs maybe they don't want you to see your kids because you are still seeing the mother? What gives? Good luck and do not do anything stupid.