How do you stop being insecure about you’re girlfriend looking at other guys?
Whenever my girlfriend looks at other guys it bothers me? For some reason even though I heard this is supposed to be normal? Btw this is my first time being in a relationship so any Advice from somebody that has a lot of experience with this type of stuff would really help I didn’t even know I was insecure until I got into a relationship lol
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There is no harm looking
I think of it like this: Sure, my guy is on a diet but he's still going to notice the scrumptious looking cookies and cupcakes in the bakery window. And that's OK, so long as he (1) sticks to his diet and doesn't actually have anything to do with those cookies and cupcakes other than noticing that they look scrumptious, and (2) doesn't humiliate with pressing his nose to the bakery window, drooling, making comparisons between me and those bakery goods.
Maturity (emotional and physical). Looking at someone isn't a big deal. Men look at other women (in some cases at other men); women look at other men (in some cases other women). If you're in a relationship with a woman, she chose you. Repeat this as often as necessary. It's one thing to look; it's another to touch.
Know that, although she's your girlfriend, you don't OWN her....she's her own woman and can still have friends outside of the relationship you have with her.
Keep the relationship strong, but don't go so far as to be too controlling over the relationship that she can't even look other guys in the eye. That's too extreme and it'll show that you're desperate.