here´s the cliché. What should i do?
I have a bf, we´ve been together for the past 2 years, with many breakups an fights we have managed to stay together. Obviously the relationship has changed, we are not that close anymore. Now i met a guy, and he is very funny and nice. He likes me and i enjoy his company, id like to get to know him better. But well i would have to break up with my bf...but im confused now....i dont know what to do, i mean my bf and i used to love each other so much, no we kinda fight a lot and we are falling apart anyways.....should i try to renew our relationship...again. Or should i try something new.
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You're already aware of what the answer is, you're just uncomfortable with the process of ending a relationship. But for the benefit of yourself and all concerned, if you're going to end your current relationship, end it completely before starting up with the next guy. That's fairest to your current mate who won't attribute the breakup to the interference of another guy ( we HATE that), fairest to the next guy who won't have to deal with drama from an ex who doesn't know it's over, and it's fairest for you....a clean slate with which to start anew. Good luck in whatever you decide.
the hardest thing is to try to bring back what you once had. if it has been awhile since you felt "it" with your bf...move on hun ..and try harder in the new relationship to communicate and not fight. You have a new chance now to do it right. sometimes fights take too big of a tole and it sounds as if "goodbye" to guy #1 is in order...In the long run you will both be better off and more educated on how to handle strife. You learn alot in relationships...most of it is "what not to do"...good luck
that would be up to you . if you two set down and without any
blaming or accusing say who you are really and what you will change and wont change . and know even if the past has some hidden trouble that it can be let go . and throw some help both can
work on the problems at hand without bring up the past
now tat ure gettin attrcted to some other guy dsnt mean tat ure over wid ure bf its only bcoz u guys are knowin each other for a long time ....ppl do fite and its nothing wrong ...ask ure heart ...do u really dnt love ure bf ...if not thn move on ,,,but simply bcoz of small arguments u shud not believe tat ure love for him is over.....
arguments and fite is spice of life......try to make up by makin love after arguments or those fites ...they say lovemakin after fites is much more passionate
You gotta ask yourself if you are staying with him (your bf) out of security and habit or because of true feelings of love and commitment to him. I would think about that and if you feel that he isn't the one then move on. There is nothing worse (well nothing I've come across) than being with someone that you don't really love....
i have NEVER know anyone that has ever had a on again off again relationship that works in the long run...
why do you have to breakup with your current to start seeing the other?
you should start seeing both.
he's new...exciting...yeah!
new wears off and the old shines through...and you'll be doing this again in two years.
you know what to do,,deep down inside
whoever makes you happier