He told me not to mind it, he has T-Mobile and he uses their Netflix account and I see his ex’s account there, I made a scene and tried to break up with him but it was just arguments over that.. we’re still together but I told him that it bugs me. He told me that he doesn’t interact with any of them anymore but I still don’t believe it. He just tells me I’m always overacting because I always see her name on his sh*t. And he says that he honestly likes me a lot and doesn’t want to let me go.
Idk what to do. It’s just that I’m worried he might do me dirty again. I care a lot about him, I help him a lot when he needs the help. Even if he is telling the truth I still feel like he isn’t.. he just keeps denying about what I point out. What to do??? Should I just stop overeating and not let it get to me anymore?
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Your boyfriend is a user. That's not really a reason to overeat but it is a reason to enter into no agreements with him, no partnership with him and to take him with a grain of salt at all times. He's sucking off the tit of his ex's family. That's a fact. He's fine with it. This is a thing to know.
Some things about a person are simply important information to have. Not something to demand change or take control over or fight about or try to solve... some times you need to merely absorb the information and deal with yourself and the other person accordingly. Your boyfriend is a user.
Why would you put up with a guy that depends on his ex family phone plan and uses their Netflix? I would have dumped that guy the minute I knew that he was still depending on his ex to pay for his phone and Netflix. Don't be crazy enough to believe that he doesn't interact with any of them. Do you honestly believe that his ex family would put up with him if it was really over his ex? I have a feeling that he's playing you and playing her also. Don't waste your time with a guy like that.