He asked her to only contact him if it's important about his child. She kept it up, complete with name calling and using his son as a pawn. He blocked her back in October due to constant texts and calls from her. She didn't meet us at the court ordered time on Christmas so he unblocked and called. Of course, it led to a huge blowout! So, we're sitting on the couch last night and I thought I heard her message tone twice from his phone but he didn't say anything. He has promised to keep me in the loop so I thought I must be hearing things. Thought about it this morning, looked at his phone, and she had texted but it had been deleted. When I asked him about it, he lied first, then got defensive, then said he unblocked it for "some reason on Sat" and that he just didn't tell me because he didn't want to deal with it. This isn't the first time he has tried to hide their communication from me. She is hateful and was a constant source of fights between us until she was blocked. We bought his son a phone so that they can talk and that has worked out just fine when he remembers to charge it! Should I think there is more to it? Thanks!
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Knock it off. Keep your nose out of his communications with the mother of his child and quit thinking you have any right whatsoever to monitor and demand to be in charge of this. You don't have a leg to stand on. Way to ruin your relationship, gal!
Look, the only person not 100% necessary in this punch is YOU. So pretending you are the one who gets to be in charge is not smart. He doesn't want his ex-wife. She's not competition. Be careful that your behaviors don't drive him to not wanting you either.
He's not the one for you. Take some time for yourself. You'll be able to see clearer when you're away from the relationship.
If you marry him, you'll be dealing with this type of thing for the rest of your life.
Why are meddling in the middle of his relationship with his ex and his son?You obviously don't trust him to let him have some sorta communication with her regarding his son?! You shouldn't be getting in the middle of his situation nor should you be in this relationship if you don't trust him.
you are a crazy and controlling person, that much is clear. why do you feel the need to approve every conversation he has with his sons mother? why are you even involving yourself in that dynamicr? Just leave it be. he can talk to her anytime he likes and you should stay out of it. they are divorced but still have a child together and they have to communicate at times because of that. Chill out.
You are a fool to marry a guy you can't trust.
you fool and manipulate others
try sth new in your life an honest conversation