My fiancé checks out other women when we go out in public all the time, he thinks I don't notice but I do and when I have questioned him before he says every man looks, it's a man thing. He says that there is always someone who you find better looking, but it's wether or not people act on it which he says he won't. He also gorps when he sees another pair of boobs. I'm am quite self conscious at the moment as we have recently had a baby. I am considering a boob job as I feel mine have drooped and emptied as such, but he says we will break up if I have one as he wants a natural women. But I hate my breasts and him gorping at other women's on tv and on the street who haven't had kids and have had boob jobs makes me confused. I tell him it upsets me and knocks me even more but he says men always do it and always will and he is sure women check other men out as well, but I don't and haven't I'm happy and think he is amazing, he says I'm pretty and have a good body and he is attracted to me. But why does he say the other stuff??? Is it really a man thing or could he be more considerate and stop gorping and stuff when were out together?

Thanks