I met this girl and we've been dating now for a few weeks. Only problem is, 1) she just got out of a relationship; 2) she's going away soon and while we have indeed hit it off and made a real connection, this is probably going to end once she leaves (though we haven't had that talk).

When we're together, she is ALL about me. Can't stop kissing me. Eyes are always looking deep into me. When I catch her looking at me, I say "What?" with a smile, and she just takes a deep breath and shakes her head with a grin. She has a hard time leaving when the date is over. She frequently texts me cute little messages on my cell throughout the day.

But when I ask her to hang out, it's like pulling teeth. She says she's bad with plans. She often says "I'm not really sure what's going on this weekend", almost as if to imply that she doesn't want to really commit to hanging out with me unless she knows what her other options are first.

Is she being aloof because she knows this soon going to come to an end? Is she playing games and wants to test me? Is she just someone who wants to have fun, and therefore doesn't really care if we hang out or not? Should I chase her or should I be more challenging and less available?

I know this is nearly a moot concern of mine, since she's leaving soon. But I guess I still really want to know. I want to better understand.