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first of all see in whiich field she is intrested in and getting good grades and then drive her in the way in which she is good n likes to study that...n also tell her to wrk hard with other subjects too...

let her continue with the competition but you,and mum have a sit down and ina a calm, loving manner, discuss with her the situation about her grades. If her grades were always much metter before this, something is stressing her out and her slipping grades are the symptom. You'll know for sure if you are close to the mark if she starts gettting all snarly or loud...remain calm, don't be mad at her, anger won't solve doodly. Tell her you want to help her figure this out and that you know there are no instant solutions, if she isn't too sure about what is stressing her or if she can't yet define it well enough to put to words *often the case* then ok...it's ok, " we have time to figure it out and and we're not so dusty we've forgotten how hard it was coming of age...we love you, we want you to be content because true happiness is nothing more than a by~product of being content." tell her she can tell you anything she has in her heart and you will do everything you can and know how to do to just LISTEN to her

Pulling your daughter out won't end the struggle. Nor will it improve her grades. You would end up with a very depressed daughter if you pull her out as not only would she have failed in dancing, her low academic grades would make her feel worse than she already does.

Dancing is very competitive and your daughter has worked very hard to achieve this level, pulling her out would be throwing all her hard work away. If her dream is to be a dancer and in dancing she has good grades, wouldn't it be better that she be given the chance to finish what she started?

Your daughter is young, has the rest of her life in front of her. She wants to dance, and won't get to this level of dancing again as you can't go back to school and do it all again. You can however return to higher education when you leave school and take courses to further your education.

The stress of dancing has obviously taken it's toil on your daughter as she can only focus on that one thing DANCING. I would leave the poor grades to one side and help to take the weight of her shoulders by not worrying about her low grades.

I know this is a tough one, however it seems that your daughter has worked hard on dancing, she wants to do it and lives to do it. Allow her to do it.

Don't take her out of her dance class. Work with her to see if you can help her to get her grades up. Have her grades been better? Good Luck!

If dance is important to her than I would tell her she needs to get her grades up to keep dancing. If she is struggling get her a tutor or find her help.