Caught my Fiancé texting some girl!!!?
I found it on his phone and she's calling him hun and sweet heart and asking if there Gona hang out later? He says he doesn't talk to her but where would she get hanging out tonight from? He's denying the whole situation. I don't kno what to do he thinks I'm over reacting. Am I? He still hasn't made plans for a wedding but now I don't think I want to be engaged anymore :( we have been together for 7 years
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I would be very careful. Don't end your engagement just yet, and try not to jump to conclusions. He could be being honest. This has obviously made it hard for you to trust him.. I would see what happens. Keep your eyes open and be wary of him, but don't make a judgement just yet. Don't torture yourself by checking his phone all the time. I think intuition is usually right. I think it does sound very suspicious, though. He's stupid to deny the situation, when it's right infront of both of your eyes. Why didn't he say they were just friends? He doesn't know how to act when he's been caught red handed, it would seem. Why would she call him sweetheart? I think you have every right to supsect him of cheating, but please don't make a decision yet. Once you've calmed down, see how you feel about it. Then give him the benefit of the doubt, if you think you should. If something happens again, don't let yourself be walked on by a cheater.
You might as well first ask him why this girl is calling him by "sweet heart or hun". If he was replying to these texts it's just plain weird. (You aren't over reacting) That doesn't randomly happen. How does one simply deny the situation. Seven years is a long time, but still, as long as there's doubt it's better to clear them with him personally once and for all. If it's still uncomfortable then follow your instinct and get out of the "engagement" idea.
Its really hard to "deny" something like that. If you're believing him that he knows nothing about this, then you're a very gullible young lady with a lot of pain lying ahead in your marriage to this man.
The truths:
1. Some babe is texting your fiance
2. She is insinuating that they have hung out before and is asking to hang out again
3. They could be friends,,, but then whats up with calling your fiance 'hun'??
4. Its near impossible for someone to type ina wrong number when sending many texts. If it was one text then perhaps it was a wrong number
Finally, the womenly instincts doll!!! Listen to em, they will NEVER EVER fail you. You wanna put up with this man's bs for the rest of your life or not?
Well Gizmo..obviously you are not overreacting because I can see you are trying to save your relationship which you maintained for 7 years.BUT I WANT TO ADD DONT TAKE DECISION ABRUPTLY.TRY TO FIND OUT WHAT IS HAPPENING BEHIND YOUR EYES.He may be in a false position with his ex or maybe trying to enter in a new relationship.Your bf says he doesn't talk to her but didn't say he doesn't text her.Right? I advice you to calm down and try to find out this girl with whom your bf is having the fling.If you can't get your hands on his phone again then at least try to ask your trustworthy friends if they have seen your bf hanging around with any other queen.You are lucky because your bf has shown this change before the wedding becoz if this had been after then it would have been more painful....
Don’t talk to him about this anymore, just try to analyze and observe him. Try checking his sent items without letting him know, he should think you have forgotten the act.
7years mean a lot, so don’t take any decision in haste.