I have my Babymama that lives with me but doesn’t help me clean at all at the house she doesn’t work I work 12 hours graveyard shifts and I come home in the morning to the house more messy than when I left and she doesn’t bother to clean a little all she does is complain that is messy I have to stay up with my kid after I get home around 10-11am to take care of him because she still tired. I try to kiss her and she barely wants to we barely have intercourse she barely put any effort on talking to me if it’s no about herself but I’m scared to leave her because she has threatened me to take my kid away and make sure I never see him again knowing her and her family it’s something i know they would do something like that but I can’t fight for custody cause I’m a known gangbanger in the system from my teenage years what shoul I do? I have tried to talk to her and she just gets worse everytime I tell her something that i don’t likeÂ
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If the two of you cannot talk, seek counselling together.
Could it be you moved in together for the sex, but now the deeper reality is hitting you?
You may need a lot of supportÂ
If you've tried talking to her and there's just no reasoning with her, then there isn't much of a relationship going. Maybe it's because you refer to her as your baby's momma instead of your gf? If all she is to you is a sex partner and little else, maybe you should seperate but you'll have to pay child support because she can go to child enforcement to make a case which I did and got a huge back payment after they garnished his wages and monthly child support. So just letting you know that if you didn't know already and I think that is what you should do.